Most men lead a life of desperation. And this desperation can lead them to mistakes that are pre-known and are committed out of desperation generated weakness. Sometimes, you are fully aware of the mistake you are about to commit but still, you commit it. It’s like having an orgasm. While in the process of having it, you badly need it. You are wild, in the moment and nothing matters but the orgasm. Once you have it, you wonder in your head, “Why did I do it? I didn’t need it. I won’t do it again.” But after a span of time, you want it again with the same or even more intensity.
Errors when repeated become mistakes. And error not repeated becomes a lesson. But for mistakes that are pre-known there are no lessons because the lesson is only known and never realized. It only makes you feel how weak you are, how vulnerable you are. You make a promise to yourself to be strong next time only to break it next time. You often make such short memory promises, for example, in hangover you promise yourself to quit drinking but the same night you are in a pub smoking up the promise you made to yourself.
Try being a real man in a situation where your desperation is high and the temptation to commit a mistake is soaring. It will take the man out of you and return with a stronger but more desperate man.
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