Once lost, you don’t and you can’t gain
But you feel like losing it again and again
It’s not dignity
It’s just a lack of opportunity
What is it?
It’s virginity!
Such a hyped up topic, isn’t it? I don’t understand how a piece of tissue determines the character of a girl. I don’t understand how a boy’s character is inversely proportional to how many times he has had 2 seconds of pleasure (that’s the duration of orgasm in men.. No, I don’t use a stopwatch). Sex before marriage is considered a sin and no sex after marriage is considered a problem. Why are we so resistant to change? Change is a natural phenomenon. Change always occurs whether you want it or not. If society doesn’t want to change, that doesn’t mean that individuals aren’t changing. If society still considers sex before marriage a taboo, that doesn’t mean its individuals are not practicing it. What hypocrites we Indian are! We gave the world Kamasutra, and now we are the ones who go ga-ga about sex. The basic problem is ‘resistance to change’ (about which I’ll post some other day, kyunki aaj mood nai hai, aaj sirf virginity ki baatein karne ka mood hai).
If someone has lost ‘V for Virginity’ before marriage, what is the big deal about it? Just because society has conditioned us, we carry the load to the future. We always carry society’s conditions on our mind and fail to think for ourselves. Virginity just means innocence. One can lose his/her virginity (innocence) without having sex too. If someone loves someone so much that he/she desires to feel the other’s body completely, and fulfills their heart’s innermost desire, does that mean he/she isn’t innocent (virgin)?
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